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When I first stuck my toe in the dating pool many years ago, I was pretty much able to do the whole soup-to-nuts date thing for about $5.00. That included a sip of 35 cent per gallon gas for my grandfather’s monstrous Pontiac, burgers and fries at Linda’s Diner, and two tickets to the Buena Vista Drive-In. Good times. Of course, I was making about $1.35 an hour at that point so this was really an extravagance. Last Saturday night my wife and I were able to resurrect the $5.00 dollar (or so) fling with many of the same elements. How did we do it?

First, we took public transportation and were willing to walk a little. So there was no need for us to blow 20% of our fun budget getting there. We also travelled at non-commuter hours so the fares were reduced. The walking - even in the rain - was a nice interlude leading into and away from the movie. It also gave us time to talk and reconnect.
Second, we searched the internet and found a free movie showing locally. The movie was a little dated but it was a big screen and a night out so it counts. The movie was nice, but it could just as easily have been a free lecture or concert. Our goals here are: Going somewhere, enjoying a nice experience, and having your wallet live to tell the tale.

And lastly, we used discount coupons for food. We also didn’t order much. We shared a large bowl of butternut lobster bisque and a wild-caught salmon salad. And we went out happy and not stuffed. (I should confess that we did break the already bruised $5.00 barrier on our walk home because we spent $1.09 on glazed chocolate crueler for desert.)
All in all it was a wonderful evening. But what likely made it better for us was that we knew that through a little planning and consciousness we could create a wonderful evening for about one twentieth of what most couples would spend for a similar evening. As money generally also reflects environmental impact, we suspect our impact and our waste were quite a bit less too. So we basically had fun, kept our impact low, and saved money. What could be better?
As I talk with folks about the difference between quality of life and standard of living, the above is pretty much what I am talking about. My wife and I spent a lot less than what is traditionally spent, but we maintained the core value of the experience. And while standard of living is measured by growth in gross domestic product and productivity (and, therefore impact and waste), quality of life‘s currencies are time, respect, connectedness, and love. It is not a hard choice for us to make.

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